I have asked this before also .my husband is havig affair with office staff?

the girl is doing for money till last year means 9years after marraige everything was fine but 2years back this girl came and evrrything is going in which way i donot understand i loee my husband but now he is totaly changed he finds out some excuses and bit me he calls her at home in my absent till late night they are there in the officenow he has arranged single bbd in the office since last one year they both whole night sends sms calls and give miscall to each other iwas having faith in my husband healh wise he is not keeping well i have supported him in each and every weak moment in his life only problemis financialy i am not supoorting him so now i am looking for job he asked me what i gave him after 10yearsmarried life he only gave me tention frustration iwant to come out of this he will not go for counciling can any counciler help me out immidiatly that i can come out from this i have 9 years old daughter office girl is mean and cheap she sometime trys to haress me